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SETTLE THE NEST™

Powered by My BEST Outcome™

Financial Clarity Before Legal Chaos™

Meet Wanda Butler

Creator of Settle the Nest™

Founder of My BEST Outcome™

I’m Wanda Butler, creator of Settle the Nest™ and founder of My BEST Outcome™.

Since 2012, I have worked with hundreds of individuals and separating couples navigating the financial complexity of the family home.

My work began with one simple belief:

Most families do not need more conflict. They need clearer financial information.

When the home is the primary asset and resources are limited, understanding the numbers can mean the difference between prolonged conflict and practical resolution.

This work is not legal positioning.

This is financial clarity.

  • Equity review and division scenarios

  • Buyout feasibility and affordability

  • Real-world settlement scenarios built around what is financially possible

Choose Your BEST Path Forward

Three specialized programs. One shared mission.Your BEST Outcome™.

The BEST Programs™ are designed to help individuals, families, and Veterans navigate separation and major life transitions with confidence, structure, and support before conflict escalates.

Backed by the BEST Ecosystem™ of trusted professionals, each program provides the guidance, financial clarity, and preparation needed to move forward stronger, informed, and ready for what’s next.

She’s not just deciding what to do with the house. She’s creating the foundation for what comes next.

Her BEST Outcome™ helps women gain financial clarity around the family home, understand their options, and make confident decisions before legal chaos begins.

Whether you’re exploring a buyout, preparing to sell, or trying to understand what staying in the home could realistically look like, we begin with the numbers, so you can move forward with clarity, not pressure.

Begin with a one-time investment of $3,500 to enroll in Her BEST Outcome™.

Once enrolled, you’ll schedule a 30-minute onboarding call via Google Meet.

From there, you’ll begin your personalized Settle the Nest™ Family Home Resolution Journey™—focused on the financial realities of the home, practical options, and a clear path forward for your next chapter.

Begin Her BEST Outcome™

This isn’t about leaving everything behind. It’s about creating a clear path forward for your home, your finances, and what comes next.

Steady Man - Ready Man™ helps men gain financial clarity around the family home, understand their options, and make informed decisions about what happens next, with confidence, not confusion.

Whether you’re considering keeping the home, exploring a buyout, preparing to sell, or simply trying to understand what’s financially possible, we help you work through the numbers before pressure and legal costs take over.

Begin with a one-time investment of $3,500 to enroll in Steady Man - Ready Man™.

Once enrolled, you’ll schedule a 30-minute onboarding call via Google Meet.

From there, you’ll begin your personalized Settle the Nest™ Family Home Resolution Journey™—focused on practical options, financial clarity, and protecting what matters most as you move into your next chapter.

Begin Stead Man - Ready Man™

Service demanded sacrifice. Your next chapter deserves clarity and security.

Veterans BEST™ helps veterans navigate separation with financial clarity around the family home, so decisions about property, equity, mortgage options, and long-term housing can be made with confidence before legal chaos begins.

Whether you’re exploring whether to keep the home, preparing for a buyout, planning a sale, or trying to understand what’s financially possible moving forward, we help bring structure to the numbers—so you can protect what matters most and move forward with strength.

Begin with a one-time investment of $3,500 to enroll in Veterans BEST™.

Once enrolled, you’ll schedule a 30-minute onboarding call via Google Meet.

From there, you’ll begin your personalized Settle the Nest™ Family Home Resolution Journey™—focused on financial clarity, practical options, and building your next chapter on a foundation of confidence, security, and stability.

Begin Veterans BEST™

Meet The BEST Ecosystem™ Nest Experts!

Wanda Butler, Separation & Divorce Fiancial Specialist | Creator of the BEST Ecosystem™

“After years of witnessing
the emotional and financial impact of unresolved decisions surrounding the family home, I created the BEST Ecosystem™ to help families move forward with clarity, structure, education, and support; before legal conflict begins.”
email: [email protected]

George Milley, Mortgage Professional | TCG Lending Centres

"As a seasoned Mortgage Professional, I support the BEST Ecosystem™ by helping individuals and families better understand mortgage options, refinancing possibilities, and spousal buyout considerations during separation, providing access to over 25 lenders in Canada to help create practical housing and financial transition solutions.” www.mortgageweb.ca/gmilley

Joyce Zelazik, Real Estate Agent | Coldwell Banker Real Estate Group Managing Broker

"As a Real Estate Agent and Managing Broker with Coldwell Banker Group, I bring honesty, responsiveness, and a supportive client-first approach to the BEST Ecosystem™, helping clients make the buying and selling process feel easier, more organized, and less overwhelming during major life transitions.” 
email:  [email protected]

Lynn Lionhood LegalShield/IDShield |International Radio Host

"As a Representative of LegalShield™ and IDShield™, I bring affordable legal service resources, identity protection, and strategic collaboration support to the BEST Ecosystem™, helping individuals and families access practical everyday legal support with greater confidence, peace of mind, and protection during life’s major transitions.”
email: [email protected]

Jennifer Sansford LegalShield/IDShield Representative

"As a Representative of LegalShield™ and IDShield™, I bring affordable legal service resources, identity protection, and strategic collaboration support to the BEST Ecosystem™, helping individuals and families access practical everyday legal support with greater confidence, peace of mind, and protection during life’s major transitions.”
email: [email protected]

 Joyce Tyson, Licensed Financial Consultant | Credit Education | Founder of Project 1000

“As a Licensed Financial
Consultant, I bring faith-driven leadership, financial education, and a deep commitment to family, service, and
long-term security to
the BEST Ecosystem™—helping
individuals make informed decisions
about the family home while
building financial stability and
creating lasting generational
impact through life’s major transitions.”
email: [email protected]

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